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Here are some tips for you to develop your personality



1. Effective Listening Skills-

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Listening skills are an important part of effective communication. Listening skills allow one to make sense of understanding what another person is saying. This thing will take you much further. It is very important that you know very well that  how to hear if anyone speak, And how does your body language act next to that you are listening carefully to him. Effective listening gives you an advantage and makes you more impressive when you speak. It also boosts your performance.
There are some tips which help those who feel like that they are not a good listener. Just follow these steps and found a new change in yourself and in your personality.

Effective Listening Skills tips

* Maintain eye contact with the speaker. This will demonstrate to the speaker that the listener is paying attention.

* Do not interrupt the speaker. Wait until he or she is completely finished, and then ask questions. When the time is right to ask, repeat instructions first and then ask appropriate questions.

* Control body language. As much as possible, sit still while listening. This implies that the listener is paying full attention to the speaker.

* Everything done in the workplace involves two-way communication-speaking and listening. Two-way communication is critical in the way it can impact efficiency and effectiveness.

* When all members of a team are able to listen as well as speak effectively, they are much more likely to perform well. Effective communication is all about understanding what is being said, not just who says it.

2. Meet new people

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Meeting new and different kinds of people is a healthy step. You get an opportunity to know more about other cultures and lifestyles and it significantly has a positive effect on your own personality. It is good for you to meet new people. You can learn a lot of it.

Meeting new people is one of the things that add variety to our lives. Fortunately the Internet has made it easier than ever to meet new people. Sometimes people have lots of potential friends in their lives and they just need to do more to try to hang out with them and start a relationship. Below is a long list of my ideas of ways to meet new people.

Meet new people tips

* Sports Team/Activity

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This one seems pretty common. Many people often join sports teams to meet new people. One of my classmates joined a beach volleyball league for 80 dollars for the entire summer and as a result has made a ton of new friends. I would recommend you find a team with people who don’t take their sports too seriously, but are just out to have a good time.

* Networking Events -

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Communities: Believe it or not these events can be a great way to meet new friends. I have been going to a ton of networking events over the last few months. As a result I have met a ton of new people and have ended up becoming friends with many. It’s just one more avenue through which you can grow your social network. It amazes me how many alumni networks I’ve seen suffer from alumni apathy. If you have attended undergrad and graduate school at two different colleges, then you’ve got a huge amount of possible events at your disposable. Just do a little research and you’ll be amazed what you find.

* Take a class - 

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Community colleges and other places have many classes that are inexpensive and offer a great way to interact with other people. Just because you are done with school it doesn’t mean you can’t take classes. It’s also a great way to explore interests that you haven’t explored before. When I lived in San Francisco, I took a stand up comedy class and I took an improve acting class. Both turned out to be a great deal of fun.

Talk to Strangers - 

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While this might seem obvious, if you go to a bar/club on a weekend you’ll see just how afraid people are of talking to new people. Most people only ever talk to the people they came with. Talking to strangers is a good thing. I have occasionally made a good friend or two by talking to strangers. While you might not form the greatest bonds in the world talking to strangers, it gets you really comfortable with being social. The old rule that you were taught as a child “don’t talk to strangers” is something you should forget. With the right energy, you’ll be amazed how much people will enjoy talking to you.

Start an Organization/Club - 

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One thing you could do is even start an organization. One of the organizations that I do some volunteer work is called Digital LA. The guy who started Digital LA had a day job but, by starting this organization has probably met several hundred, if not several thousand new people in Los Angeles.

3. Work on Your Body Language

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First, to change your body language you must be aware of your body language. You might want to practice in front of a mirror.  Yeah it might seem silly but no one is watching you. This  will  give  you  good  feedback  on how  you  look to other  people  and  give  you  an  opportunity  to  practice  a  bit before  going  out  into  the world. Language on Your Personality makes quite a difference. When you’re walking shoulders should be straight. Sit straight, do not lean. Speaking to Time Eye Contact Maintain.

Tips for your body language

* Sit properly -

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 Sit upright but in a relaxed fashion leaning slightly forward at about a 10 to 15 degree angle towards the interviewer. This sends the message that you are an interested and involved candidate.

* Be aware of your hands -

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The best thing to do with your hands is to rest them loosely clasped in your lap or on the table, if there is one. Fiddling with hair, face, or neck sends a message of anxiety and uncertainty. Body language experts agree that touching the nose, lips, or ears can signal that the candidate is lying.

* Don't cross your arms 

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Folding arms across the chest suggest a defensive type of position. It sends the message that the candidate is feeling threatened and ill-at-ease and is shutting the interviewer out. It can also send the message that the candidate does not agree with or buy into what the interviewer is saying.

* Place both feet on the floor -

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 Crossing feet at the ankles or placing them both flat on the floor sends a message of confidence and professionalism. Jiggling or moving the legs creates an irritating distraction and indicates nervousness. Resting an ankle on the opposite knee looks arrogant and too casual, crossing the legs high up appears defensive.

* Maintain direct eye contact 

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Keeping direct eye contact with the interviewer indicates active listening and interest. Eyes that dart around suggest dishonesty. Looking down gives the impression of low self-esteem.


4. Like The People

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The thing you will have to accept that any human being in this world cannot be perfect, if you do not like any particular human being because, that person or that thing that you have not used, you should expect the same in every human being in this world, every person so in this way you will feel bad.

Tips of like the people

* Do not hate the people around. You see all accessories. If you hate the people you don’t like anything of his.

*  Around the people always good to think about the people.

* The people must understand the things around you poor little rich, all goods must be understood.

*  Please make sure to like people, To behave well with them and improve the patient has to talk to your personality.

5. Be courteous

If you are courteous, your good manners show friendliness and concern for others, like your courteous habit of holding the door for people entering a building with you. Very polite in a way that shows respect. Other people are respect for and courteous.

Tips for courteous office behavior

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* Smile on your face.

*  Always put your used dishes in the proper place.

*  Listen before offering your opinion.

*  Always be courteous and expect the same from other.

*  Keep your work area clean.

*  Introduce yourself to people you don’t know.

*  Dress appropriately for the work and environment.

*  Be punctual.

*  Offer get a drink for those seated nearby when you get one for yourself.

*  Express gratitude for work well done.

*  Hold the door for other.

Tips for courteous for customer service

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*  Consider this to be sure of your courteous every person would like to talk to you, if it is you do in your business and more likely to increase your customer.

*  If people like what you want in your life before you made yourself.

*  Use the client’s name in conversation to customer.

*  Really listen to what the client is saying before you respond. What are his wants and needs.

*  Be efficient and friendly behavior to customer.

*  Actively listen to effectively respond to customer.

*  Give a professional and friendly image.

*  Maintain good eye contact to customer.

*  Show the same respect to everyone.

6. Caring For Others

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The support we provide ranges from simple practical support with everyday living tasks, such as housework, shopping, laundry, correspondence and other paperwork, through to help with personal care (washing, dressing, medication etc.), making or eating meals, and even higher-level clinical or nursing support. In many cases, our staff also supports older people to maintain their family and social lives, perhaps escorting them outside the home.

It's not always easy to know who or how to help. A good start is simply to stop and talk to an elderly neighbor if you pass them on the street. If you think an older person may have trouble hearing or has memory problems make sure to speak clearly.

Tips for caring other

*  The most important part of caring for the elderly is to love them and keep them active.

*  There are many different ways to care for the elderly, whether by caring for them in the comfort of their own homes, bringing them to your home or moving    them to a senior center.

*  With time and a little hard work you can properly care.

*  Extensive medical care, including weekly medical check-ups and treatment as required.

*  A comfortable room with necessary infrastructure.

*  Helping people in need is a major aspect of being caring.

7. Accept Your Weak Points

 Good parents let their kids fall down from time to time. It teaches the kids how to soothe themselves, as well as where their limits are. It makes stronger, more confident, and more courageous kids. Can we treat our own selves this way, picking ourselves up gently when we fall, and not berating and punishing ourselves for being human?

Never admit to a weakness, just find a positive and try to frame it as a weakness. So when your interviewer asks you to name a professional weakness, you go with “I work too hard” or “I care too much” or “I’m just so awesome that it can be distracting to others.”

Many interviewers ask the weakness question — in all industries, at all levels. They ask it because they want to get a sense of the real you. They know that every candidate comes with strengths and weaknesses and they want to know yours.

Strengths of person tips

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*  Knowledge-based skills: Acquired from education and experience (e.g., computer skills, languages, degrees, training and technical ability).

*  Transferable skills: Your portable skills that you take from job to job (e.g., communication and people skills, analytical problem solving and planning skills).

*  Personal traits: Your unique qualities (e.g., dependable, flexible, friendly, hardworking, expressive, formal, punctual and being a team player).

Some examples of strengths you might mention

*  Creativity

*  Discipline

*  Patience

*  Respectfulness

*  Determination

*  Honesty

*  Versatility

*  Dedication

Weaknesses of person

This is probably the most dreaded part of the question. Everyone has weaknesses, but who wants to admit to them, especially in an interview?

Once you know your weaknesses you can work on them and improve them.

Tips for weaknesses

*  So in order to improve your personality first of all you have to accept and recognize your weak points.

* Admitting you fault is not weaknesses.

* Focusing on our weaknesses while ignoring our strengths can be a source of discouragement and failure.

* Weakness is nothing to be ashamed of; it is part of human nature

8. Don’t Judge People all the time

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Despite our best efforts, we all judge others. It might be over small things, like a co-worker who took too long of a lunch break. Or it might be over bigger issues, such as a person who behaves selfishly or hurts our feelings.

You're talking to someone and you know what the person in front of what is going on   in life, no matter if the judge does not go to the front. Why should not move forward, but no matter how human he is any other human being's life cannot judge,you can judge your own life.

Don’t Judge People are tips

* Don’t blame yourself.

*    Be mindful.

*    Depersonalize

*    Look for basic goodness

*    Feel good about you. 

*    Give the person the benefit of the doubt.

*    Educate yourself. 

*    Look at your own behavior 

9. Be confident

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Your confidence is related to your self-esteem, which is feeling good about yourself and feeling that you’re a worthwhile person. But having high self-esteem doesn’t mean you always feel confident. Resilience and confidence are related too. If your child has resilience and learns that she can cope when life is difficult, it will leave her feeling more confident to tackle difficult situations. It’s a positive cycle.

Interview with Confidence tips

Confidence Mirror - It works. Standing in front of a mirror, looking at your reflection, using body language and saying stuff helps you increase confidence. Every day I get more and more confident in myself and my abilities.

*  I feel comfortable in my skin.

*  I accept myself for who I am.

*  I don’t seek attention and approval.

*  I am confident in what life has planned for me.

*  I like what I see in the mirror.

*  I have control over my mind and my life.

*  I’m good at many things.

*  I’m outgoing and communicative.

*  Each day it gets easier for me to do things with confidence.

*  I have the knowledge and competence to do what I want with my life and achieve a lot’

*  I’m proud of who I am.

*  I’m doing great things with my life.

*  People feel good around me, they want to be in my company.

*  My voice sounds confident.

*  I naturally appear and feel confident in every situation I face daily.

Body Positioning - You can naturally adjust your body for confidence by asking, “If I was really interested in what my interviewer was saying, how would I sit?” You will be surprised how often you need to readjust your body and how much more confident you feel afterwards.

Exercise & Dress - Staying fit and dressing appropriately for interviews are helpful practices. Both will give you more confidence and regular exercise always provides you more energy and makes you feel better about yourself.

Be present - The key to confidence when interviewing is coming prepared and staying present connected and fully engaged in the process and what you need to convey about yourself.

10. Meditation

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Meditation is a practice of concentrated focus upon a sound, object, visualization, the breath, movement, or attention it's self in order to increase awareness of the present moment, reduce stress, promote relaxation, and enhance person and spiritual growth. Meditation benefits people with or without acute medical illness or stress. People who meditate regularly have been shown to feel less anxiety and depression. They also report that they experience more enjoyment and appreciation of life and that their relationships with others are improved. Meditation produces a state of deep relaxation and a sense of balance or equanimity. According to Michael J. Baime, "Meditation cultivates an emotional stability that allows premeditated to experience intense emotions fully while simultaneously maintaining perspective on them." Out of this experience of emotional stability, one may gain greater insight and understanding about one's thoughts, feelings, and actions. This insight in turn offers the possibility to feel more confident and in control of life. Meditation facilitates a greater sense of calmness, empathy, and acceptance of self and others.

According to Buddhism, some fears are healthy and some are  unhealthy. It’s true that meditation will help for personality development and self improvement. So here are few meditations techniques for beginners to help you achieve your personality development goals. We have between 50,000 to 70,000 thoughts per day in our mind. You can practice meditation in a quiet place whether it is in your home or in your office or in somewhere else.  Find the comfortable position and relax and let go of your all thoughts form your mind. Really we feel energetic after such short meditation. That is why we suggest this meditation for beginners in the first place. Try above mentioned meditation techniques for beginner’s everyday and find the positive changes in your life and in your personality as well by yourself.

Tips to get started with meditation

*  Choose a convenient time.

*  Choose a Quiet Place.

*  Sit in a Comfortable Posture.

*  Keep a Relatively Empty Stomach.

*  Start With a Few Warm-ups.

*  Take a Few Deep Breaths.

*  Keep a Gentle Smile on Your Face.

*  Open Your Eyes Slowly and Gently.

11. Always keep smile on your face

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Personality Development is Important for the students and people. You should always have a smile on your face when you meet any body. Smiles are so powerful. That many long-term marriages and healthy relationships have begun with a single smile shared across a room. Each morning, when you come to work, “do the rounds.” Go to each person on your team and smile at them. To keep yourself happy first will avoid those things that hurt you. First of all, to love yourself. Nobody in the world is not perfect; you do not even acknowledge it. Do not ever compare yourself to anyone.

Always smile for tips

*  Listen to one of your favorite songs.

*  Think about someone who has had a major positive influence in your life.

*  Feel gratitude.

*  Cherish the sun.

*  Call someone you love and tell them you love them.

*  Drop any expectations you have in the world.

*  Chocolate time. 

*  Do something crazy. 

*  Lock the door, press play, and dance like there’s no tomorrow.

*  Get out in the park, in a forest, or close your eyes and memorize the last time you went there. 

*  Run at full speed for 10 minutes.

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